Ya Know What Really Drives Me Nuts?!?

The internet is a great place to meet people and to stay in contact with friends and family across the globe. What really unnerves me though is when you are minding your own business, just reading your email, or checking out your favorite spots on the net, and some freak messages you with a picture of his not-so-well endowed self like you should be in awe of his manhood (or lack thereof). What could possibly make a man think that a woman would be turned on or want to have sex with them because they message this woman with a lewd comment or a picture of their male anatomy splattered across your messenger window? Another great one I love, is men overseas messaging American women looking for marriage. I receive 3-4 of these a week! And on every one of my profiles, I state that I am a happily married woman. Which brings us back to the first gripe as well-- it takes alot of gall for some idiot to message a married woman out of the blue, show her his dingy, and tell her he wants to screw her... what a turn off. I know that I am repulsed by it. For all you guys out there: You'd get alot further with some nice conversation and taking the time to get to know a woman... talking NICE to her and NOT dirty... complimenting her and not making lewd comments right off the bat. And no, we don't really care for cyber sex... it's so impersonal and why on earth would we want something fake, when we can have the real thing?! Another thing, it's an insult to message a married woman in such a way. Some of us take our vows seriously, and are put out by a man who would assume otherwise especially not knowing her...